• FoundTheVegan
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    241 year ago

    Sexual frustration comes from mysgonstic talking points that women, rightfully, keep their distance from. Why would I want to sleep with someone who is demeaning and insulting to me? 😂

    • @clearedtoland@lemmy.world
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      201 year ago

      Maybe not you but someone out there might. Age has taught me the world takes all types.

      Contrary to the incel narrative, the study found that extreme misogynistic views were driven by a psychology of dominance and status-seeking, which correlated with having many sexual partners.

      That’s the real problem. They’re not necessarily sexually frustrated, that’s only a piece of it. It’s a distortion of their value and self-esteem, projected onto women. “If I matter, women should sleep with me.”

      • xuxebiko
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        131 year ago

        psychology of dominance and status-seeking = entitled

        • @clearedtoland@lemmy.world
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          61 year ago

          Concise and accurate. Which is odd to me because I’d think that’s an Alpha Bro but apparently it’s a Chad trait.

          • xuxebiko
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            61 year ago

            it’s an abuser’s trait. Lundy Brancroft taught me that in his book ‘Why does he do that?’

        • TheWoozy
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          11 year ago

          I would have gone with pathetically desperate rather than entitled, but close enough.

    • @MasterBlaster@lemmy.world
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      61 year ago

      Interestingly, that is the same logic MGTOW have for not wanting women in their lives. Just replace mysogeny with misandry in the assertion.

      • @Nataratata@lemmy.world
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        01 year ago

        But that’s not the topic? I wish MGTOW would just go their own way already instead of pestering everyone with their bullshit.

    • @blindbunny@lemmy.ml
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      1 year ago

      It also comes from not being able to communicate to a potential partner how you would like to climax. Likely out of embarrassment or shame.

      Also you don’t have to do shit for anyone that insults you.