I have a friend who’s alcohol consumption has gotten out of control. Me and his other friends/family are planning an intervention and so I’ve been doing a lot of research/reading on the topic.

NEVER and I mean NEVER have I seen so many fucking ads for alcohol in my LIFE. Instagram? 15 ads in a half hour of scrolling reels. YouTube? Ads. Google results? Ads. Twitter? Ads.

It’s fucking everywhere and it’s SICK. I’m researching how to help someone stop drinking and I’m getting inundated with ads for anything from gin, beers, vodkas and more. I can’t even imagine having an alcohol issue and trying to find help for myself with the web being this way.

It’s fucking sick.

  • @SIGSEGV@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    I had 2 interventions in my life and neither worked. In fact, they made it much worse for me.

    I suggest that you go to AlAnon and learn a bit about alcoholism before trying anything (btw, AlAnon is not AA, but is a program to help non-alcoholics understand what they’re dealing with.)

    Your friend is lucky to have you. Don’t give up on them. It truly is hellish, and they’ll need your support.

    • @intensely_human@lemm.ee
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      371 year ago

      I’ve found with my own addictions that forcibly stopping one just causes a different one to start up.

      The real solution for me has been healing trauma, resulting in baseline consciousness not being painful.

      • @SIGSEGV@sh.itjust.works
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        31 year ago

        Many of the programs recommend therapy first. No one wants to drink themselves to death, even though it feels like that sometimes.

        • esty
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          51 year ago

          i smoke as much as the next guy but at this point it would be replacing one vice with another

        • @scarabic@lemmy.world
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          31 year ago

          Different people react to it differently and for some it’s very positive. It may depend what the underlying stressor is. People who have chronic pain often respond well to THC/CBD.

          And it certainly has fewer ill effects than booze.

    • @rbesfe@lemmy.ca
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      271 year ago

      AA always gave off bad vibes to me because of the whole “surrender to a higher power” shtick

    • @ZombieTheZombieCat@lemm.ee
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      101 year ago

      Absolutely. There has to be some little glimmer of already wanting to quit for them to take the help seriously. I would absolutely recommend AlAnon as well. You can’t just force someone into treatment, and that’s pretty much what interventions try to do, on top of making the person feel guilt and shame which likely is why they drink in the first place. Being able to have a one on one, calm conversation about how the person is affecting themselves and others is probably a good route, because people often do not recognize they have a problem in the first place. It would not be surprising for it to end with the person getting angry and storming out, but it plants the seed in a more reasonable way than having everyone they know cornering them, humiliating them, and saying “go to rehab now or we never speak to you again.”

      Source: in recovery, worked in the field.

      • @SIGSEGV@sh.itjust.works
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        11 year ago

        The guilt and shame is brutal, and shouldn’t be used to try to change someone into behaving better. It’s like spanking you kids, which is illegal now (at least whew I’m at).

    • @scarabic@lemmy.world
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      31 year ago

      +1 AlAnon is a good program. It shows how deeply ingrained alcohol is in our society that we have support programs just for people who know an alcoholic.